{"id":3976,"date":"2024-04-15T05:56:35","date_gmt":"2024-04-15T05:56:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/?p=3976"},"modified":"2024-04-15T05:58:23","modified_gmt":"2024-04-15T05:58:23","slug":"i-was-taken-aback-and-embarrassed-and-hesitated-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/2024\/04\/15\/i-was-taken-aback-and-embarrassed-and-hesitated-5\/","title":{"rendered":"I was taken aback (and embarrassed) and hesitated before stuttering “uhhh"},"content":{"rendered":"I was taken aback (and embarrassed) and hesitated before stuttering “uhhh<\/title><\/p>\n<h2>He then asked me a few more innocent question before switching the topic back, asking if I liked oral sex and other oddly worded questions that I can’t remember<\/h2>\n<p>“Have you ever just kissed anyone just simply because you were horny?” he asked rather loudly considering we were in a crowded cafe. no. not really. I think that’s more of a male thing, I can’t say I’ve done that.. no.” (sounds sexist, shutup I was under pressure). I lightly told him that it was rude to ask me that but still was tolerant of him (I’ve encountered many douches and at that time felt I wouldn’t get much better).<\/p>\n<p>Not long after this, he suggested we leave. By this I thought he meant part ways, as he knew I had to meet up with a friend not long after coffee.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Luckily he did because ironically, I had left my wallet at home. I felt like it was such a cliche but felt super guilty as it makes me feel bad when anyone pays for me.<\/p>\n<p>When we got in the car, he started to drive a different direction to where I lived (which was 5 minutes away). I asked where we were going and he pulled up in a street nearby with little to no street lights that was extremely dim and parked outside a random house.<\/p>\n<p>I asked him what we were doing there and he told me he wanted to talk in private, to which I responded that we could talk in private out the front of my house. He argued that it wouldn’t be private and that people would “look out of windows”. I STUPIDLY told him that no one would because only my sister was home and i would text her not to. He kicked up a bit and got <a href=\"https:\/\/gorgeousbrides.net\/pt\/latin-beauty-date\/\">https:\/\/gorgeousbrides.net\/pt\/latin-beauty-date\/<\/a> slightly angry before agreeing to take me home. This should have been enough for me, but no. I was naive and lonely.<\/p>\n<p>When we parked out the front of my house, we started talking and he tried to lean in to kiss me, to which I kept pulling away and giving off negative body language but still was friendly. After a bit he started asking me to look at him to which I made jokes (sometimes in stressful situations, I make jokes to clear the tension – bad habit) and kept my distance until he basically turned my head and kissed me. I just went with it as I was lonely and thought he wasn’t that bad looking and I reasoned that a kiss was just a kiss. After a few seconds I tried to pull away and he pulled me into a bear hug to which I half hardheartedly tried to get out of but gave up and continued kissing him. A little while later I tried to pull away and he put me in almost a headlock type hold. STILL SOMEHOW I WASN’T CONCERNED ENOUGH TO GTFO OF THERE!<\/p>\n<h2>Sexual questions that were unusual<\/h2>\n<p>We stopped kissing after a bit and continued talking, he asked if I’d sit in the back seat with him to cuddle to which I hesitantly said yes. Once we got in the back we cuddled and talked but then he kept grabbing at my boobs and vagina. I just kept telling him to stop because it was pissing me off. He was doing it in a jokey way, like “Whoops, accidentally brushed your boob”. I didn’t take it too seriously until it happened a few times and I told him that he had had his feel, and enough was enough. I wasn’t good at saying no to men back then, not that its any excuse. After a couple of times I said I was moving the other side of the car so he couldn’t touch me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was taken aback (and embarrassed) and hesitated before stuttering “uhhh He then asked me a few more innocent question before switching the topic back, asking if I liked oral sex and other oddly worded questions that I can’t remember “Have you ever just kissed anyone just simply because you were horny?” he asked rather… <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/2024\/04\/15\/i-was-taken-aback-and-embarrassed-and-hesitated-5\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">I was taken aback (and embarrassed) and hesitated before stuttering “uhhh<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1395],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3976"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3976"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3976\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3977,"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3976\/revisions\/3977"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3976"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3976"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gosoluciones.mx\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3976"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}